Our Lonely Garden
The Trinity itself is a model of togetherness, yet the road of the cross stands as the ultimate symbol of isolation.
We’re wired to be part of groups. Whether it’s family, neighbors, colleagues, or classmates, we crave connection. It is our nature, God made us for each other. Even marriage, one of the closest bonds, reminds us that we’re not meant to walk this path alone.
But here’s a Christian life paradox: the journey to the cross is solitary.
The Christian life It’s a solo walk in a garden where only you and God tread. Loneliness stings because we’re built for communion. The Trinity itself is a model of togetherness, yet the road of the cross stands as the ultimate symbol of isolation.
In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus was in agony, communing with God the Father, preparing Himself for the road to the cross that awaited Him. After everyone deserted Him and fled (Mark 14:50), He carried the cross—His final assignment—without taking advantage of His rightful divine and kingly nature. He did it as a man. And on that raw, painful road, God sent Simon, a passerby, to help Him with the load. A reminder that He will never leave us alone.
So why is it crucial to take up your cross and follow Him? Because it’s in that solitude that we discover God is enough. In both loneliness and community, there’s a lesson. Whether we’re solo pilgrims or part of a joyful crowd, there’s growth to be found in each. We are called to both.
Until the next one,
J
